feat(p5): messaging, push gateway and AI assistant services

P5 阶段交付物：
- services/msg: 消息通知服务（NestJS）
  - notifications: 发送通知 + ES 全文检索 + search
  - config/elasticsearch.ts: ES Client 单例
  - package.json: 补充 @opentelemetry/sdk-node + exporter-trace-otlp-http
- services/push-gateway: WebSocket 推送网关（Go Gin）
  - internal/hub/hub.go: WebSocket 连接池管理（Register/Unregister/SendToUser）
  - internal/ws/handler.go: JWT 鉴权 + WebSocket 升级 + 内部推送 API
- services/ai: AI 辅助服务（Python FastAPI）
  - /chat + /chat/stream（SSE 流式）
  - /generate/question + /optimize/expression
  - config.py: OpenAI 兼容 API 配置
- packages/shared-proto/proto/msg.proto: NotificationService 契约（send/search）
- packages/shared-proto/proto/ai.proto: AiService 契约（含 stream 方法）

services/push-gateway/Dockerfile

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+FROM golang:1.22-alpine AS builder
+WORKDIR /app
+COPY go.mod go.sum ./
+RUN go mod download
+COPY . .
+RUN CGO_ENABLED=0 go build -o push-gateway .
+
+FROM alpine:3.20
+RUN apk --no-cache add ca-certificates
+WORKDIR /app
+COPY --from=builder /app/push-gateway .
+EXPOSE 8081
+CMD ["./push-gateway"]