feat(p5): messaging, push gateway and AI assistant services

P5 阶段交付物：
- services/msg: 消息通知服务（NestJS）
  - notifications: 发送通知 + ES 全文检索 + search
  - config/elasticsearch.ts: ES Client 单例
  - package.json: 补充 @opentelemetry/sdk-node + exporter-trace-otlp-http
- services/push-gateway: WebSocket 推送网关（Go Gin）
  - internal/hub/hub.go: WebSocket 连接池管理（Register/Unregister/SendToUser）
  - internal/ws/handler.go: JWT 鉴权 + WebSocket 升级 + 内部推送 API
- services/ai: AI 辅助服务（Python FastAPI）
  - /chat + /chat/stream（SSE 流式）
  - /generate/question + /optimize/expression
  - config.py: OpenAI 兼容 API 配置
- packages/shared-proto/proto/msg.proto: NotificationService 契约（send/search）
- packages/shared-proto/proto/ai.proto: AiService 契约（含 stream 方法）

services/msg/Dockerfile

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+# Build stage
+FROM node:20-alpine AS builder
+WORKDIR /app
+RUN npm install -g pnpm
+COPY package.json pnpm-lock.yaml* ./
+RUN pnpm install --frozen-lockfile
+COPY tsconfig.json nest-cli.json ./
+COPY src ./src
+RUN pnpm build
+
+# Runtime stage
+FROM node:20-alpine
+WORKDIR /app
+RUN npm install -g pnpm
+COPY package.json pnpm-lock.yaml* ./
+RUN pnpm install --prod --frozen-lockfile
+COPY --from=builder /app/dist ./dist
+EXPOSE 3007
+CMD ["node", "dist/main.js"]