feat: initialize parent-bff service with full core features

add complete parent-bff implementation including:
- GraphQL endpoint with depth/cost validation
- ChildGuard越权校验 with redis cache and singleflight
- parallel orchestration with partial failure fallback
- three-level cache fallback strategy (Redis + LRU + downstream)
- Kafka consumer for cache invalidation and notification push
- opossum circuit breaker for downstream services
- Prometheus metrics and SLO alerts
- Helm chart for k8s deployment with multi-environment configs
- Grafana dashboard for observability
- complete unit and integration tests

services/parent-bff/nest-cli.json

@@ -0,0 +1,8 @@
+{
+  "$schema": "https://json.schemastore.org/nest-cli",
+  "collection": "@nestjs/schematics",
+  "sourceRoot": "src",
+  "compilerOptions": {
+    "deleteOutDir": true
+  }
+}